For all spouces / boyfriends / girlfriends who think that your partners nag and irritate you and get on your nerves etc etc etc.. this read could be the revelation of a lifetime !
trust me, you will bless me for sharing this with you..
I was let into this little secret by a person who i hold in the highest esteem and have had the hugest crush on him since 2005. My landmark coach, Mr Pravin Puri.. I think he felt compelled to give me this knowledge as a gift after i told him how mad i was about him ;)
sharing it with all of u..
For the men : The secret about women
What do little girls do ? What is their game ? They play with dolls. They nurture them, they mother them, take care of them..Their dialogue is always one way "Do this, do that.. wear this, lets go here, eat this, dont eat that, i will punish you, listen to me, etc etc etc". With time, the girls grow up, they leave their dolls and their parents get them married. to whom ? to poor you.
The girls are innocent and only continue to play their little doll games with the husband. The game of 'nurturing and ordering'. The dialogue too remains the same " where are you going? why are you going ? do this, dont do that, listen to me, i told you so.. etc etc"
So everytime your wife nags, its really not the fault of the husband...its the wife's childhood habit, its her game, its what she knows , its what she does....
Men, dont take it personally..Everytime your wife nags, realise dat shes playing her childhood game. In your mind, just say " doll, doll, doll, doll, doll, doll, doll" and you shall feel better, because this really has nothing to do with you !
For the women : The secret about men
Since men were little boys, they did just one thing..their game was to play with toys.To enjoy the newness of a brand new expensive thing for 3 minutes to be precise and then turn it upside down, side to side, open it up, check for the weak links and then break them.After it is broken they sit with their tools to fix those broken pieces.
Men are like that, they cannot stay without messing a situation or breaking things and then they sit wondering how to fix them.. Wives, dont take it personally when ur husband screws up a perfectly fine arrangement. Its their intrinsic nature to break and fix things.. Remember, everytime you wonder how your husband could do this to you, just let your mind say " toy, toy, toy, toy,toy, toy,toy". and you shall feel better instantly !!
Infact if you have a husband who does not break or spoil anything atleast once a week, safeguard him, because he is a rare species.. difficult to find those kinds now a days !
Till, the next blog......keep smiling !
For the men:the word "doll" shall be taken just as a reference set of 4 alphabets & the combinitions could be changed innovatively.
ReplyDeleteI would suggest this combination- "LOL :D "
:):)
I wish it was so easy Kavyal..... But I will definitely make sumit read it !!!
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